Toileting

Toilet training for children with neurodevelopmental conditions may take longer.

Some children with autism may be prone to constipation or diarrhoea. They may experience one or both at the same time.

How can I help?

  • Make sure that everyone involved with your child knows the approach that you are using so that you are all consistent.

  • Keep to the same routine.

  • If your child does not like change, it may be easier not to train using a potty as this will mean more change from potty to toilet.

  • Watch your child to see when they wee and poo so that you can try and work out when you are likely to need to take them to the toilet.

  • Have a visual sequence beside the toilet to help your child understand what to do.

  • Some children may find bowel movements frightening so it may be useful to explain this.

  • Some children may like the feel of a full nappy and not want to change.

  • Some children enjoy the feel of smearing (touching their faeces), therefore other acceptable activities need to be provided.

  • Check if anything in the toilet/bathroom may be affecting sensory issues e.g. water flushing.

  • If your child does not like the texture of toilet paper, think of alternatives to use.

  • Avoid using baby language as this may be difficult to change later.

  • Use the same toileting routine when out of the home.

  • If difficulties persist, contact your GP or another health professional involved in the care of your child to give advice.

National Autistic Society

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ERIC

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Toilet Routine (Boys)

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Toilet Routine (Poo)

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Toilet Routine (Girls)

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Potty/toilet training information leaflet from Contact for families with disabled children

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